1st Radio Show of Don't Cut him Girl with Angel Bearfield

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Radio Show Premiere

Don't Cut Him Girl premieres tomorrow on Blog Talk Radio!!! My first guest will be author Angel Bearfield where we will Discuss her book Child Support!! Be sure to tune in at Noon!!!

Dear Sperm Donar,

Dear Sperm Donar,
Just thought you would like to know how your child is doing. He's growing up to be quite a good young man. He's making straight A's in school and is the star basketball player at his school. He's on the debate team and is receiving a full scholarship to USC. I remember he used to ask about you all the time. Where's my daddy? why doesn't daddy come around? Does daddy even love me? But after a while he got over the disappointment of you not being there. He strived to become a better man than you and he has accomplished that. He wishes you the best in life and said that he hope that you could live what he missed out on because he's going places. As many of times as I wanted to curse you out for not being there or never paying your child support I never let it affect our son. Ever. So thanks for not being there because I'm sure you would've screwed him up. You gave me the greatest gift in the world even though you didn't stick around to see him grow.

Sincerely,

The one who did better

When He's Trying

He's there when your child goes to the doctor. He spends time with your child as often as he can. He calls and checks up on your child regularly but....he doesn't have a job. You get mad because he's not supporting your child enough financially. My advice would be to let it go. If he's doing everything else for your child then he's not so bad. It's a tough economy. I'm sure once he gets on his feet he will contribute. don't start the if you don't have 200 dollars you can't see your child stuff because your child only remembers time spent not money. If he gives some here and there then that's a start but don't start pushing him away. It's a few good fathers out there and if yours is trying to be one don't scare him away. kids need both parents whether your together or not together. Don't put a wedge in their relationship because you want more money in your pocket because then you have to answer to your child why daddy stopped coming around. And do you really want to do that?

Birthday Parties

Situation: Its your child's birthday and you're having a birthday party for him/her. Your baby daddy shows up late, with no gift, and a girl you never seen before.

What You Want To Do:  Slap him and yell "I know you didn't come to our child's party all late with no gift and with some bitch!"

What You Should Do: Wait until after the party to talk to him so that you don't cause a scene at your child's party. Then calmly as you can tell him how you feel.

Tasty Thursdays!

Sunrise Mini Pizzas
8-10 eggs
3 tbsp. milk
salt and pepper to taste
1 tbsp. butter
10 frozen whit dinner rolls, thawed
10 bacon strips, cooked and crumbled
2 cups shredded cheddar cheese

In a bowl, beat the eggs. add milk, salt and pepper. Melt butter in skillet; add the egg mixture. Cook and stir over medium heat until the eggs are set. Remove from the heat and set aside.

Roll each dinner roll into a 5-in. circle. Place on greased baking sheets. Spoon egg mixture evenly over crusts. Sprinkle with bacon and cheese. Bake ay 350 for 15 minutes or until the cheese is melted.

Yield: 10 pizzas

The Bonquesha Files

What happens when ghettoness gets the best of us. Yes it Happens.

If Not You

I hear moms complaining about taking care of their kids alone. Mom killing their children because they don't want to take care of their children or their baby's daddy left them. The truth is when you laid down and decided to make that child and give that child life. YOU took responsibility for that child. YOU are suppose to protect that child not hurt that child. It shouldn't matter that deadbeat Henry isn't around to take his responsibilities seriously. That child still has you. Their mother. The person who's suppose to nurture him/her. So if you don't want the responsibility give the child up for adoption to someone who actually gives a damn about your child. No need to harm them or resent them because you're alone. Single moms have been doing what they had to do to take care of their children for years. there is no reason that you can't do it to. Woman up and stop blaming the man or everyone else around you for your problems. A child is a precious gift and is the one person who will always be there. Protect that innocent life. Do what you you have to do because if you don't take care of them then who will?  Who's going to protect them? No one. So step up and handle yours or give someone who actually wants to be a parent a chance.

Words of Wisdom Friday!

Stop crying about how small your child support check is because there are plenty of single moms out here that don't even know what a child support check looks like. So be grateful for what you do get and do your best to support your child the best way you know how.

Theme Song Search

Searching for someone to create a theme song for the Don't Cut Him Girl radio show and Web Series. Must be original and you have to own all rights. Email dontcuthimgirl@gmail.com for submissions. Deadline is Feb 1st.

Pregnancy

Situation: You just found out your pregnant and are so excited. You call and tell him that you are expecting and he comes back with. What you want me to do about it? It isn't mine!

What you want to do: Grab him through the phone and choke him out!!!

What you should do: Explain to him that it is his child. (If it is because you can never be too sure these days) and that when the baby comes he can get a paternity test to prove it. Don't stress yourself out over it chasing him and becoming sick because he won't man up. Do you.

Blog Talk Show Premiere!!!

January 31st, 2012 the first blog talk radio show of Don't Cut Him Girl will premiere on Blog Talk Radio at 12 pm eastern time!!! Be Sure to tune in!! Check me out as I clown around and give sound advice on staying out of that orange jumpsuit!!!

The "Girlfriend" part 1

Situation: You both have an agreement that you both won't have someone around your child that your not serious with. You later find out that he has had multiple females around your child and that this female has pictures of your child on her FB page. You confront him and he acts stupid and then the female jumps in it like its any of her business.

What you want to do: Slap her, him, and anybody else who thinks that you are out of line with the situation.

What you should do: Tell the female that the your child is not her child and you don't know her so you don't feel comfortable having her around your child until you know her and to remove the pictures of your child from her FB page. Tell your baby daddy that you both had an agreement and that if he does not stick to it then your child can stay home and he can visit the child there if anything like this happens again.

If all else fails: Go with what you want to do. Just try to avoid JAIL!!!! lol J/P....maybe

20 Reasons Not To Kill Your Baby Daddy

Child Support

Scenario: You both are in court and he was ordered to pay you..let's say $350 a month. As the months goes on he pays you not one single penny. He calls you and say that he's not paying you anything and you can lock him up for all he cares.

What you want to do: Slash his tires, put sugar in his gas tank, slap the black off of him, and of course cut him.

What you should do: Let him know that you don't need him to take care of the child but he's still responsible because you weren't there alone. Then call family court, give them his address, go to court, and if he doesn't pay it. Lock him up. Plain and simple. Let him sit in county and think for those six months.

Introduction

This blog was created for every baby mama who has ever wanted to go up their baby daddy and put a knife to his throat. We take different scenarios and tell you how to deal with them so you won't end up in jail and explaining to your kids why mommy is rocking orange for 25 to life. Take our advice or don't take it its up to you. But we're here to help you survive that well known species. Baby Daddy.